Lokesh chahar
It’s time meditation be made a vital element of our social support system. It can drastically bring down suicide rates. Every year, millions around the world try to kill themselves, and nearly half a million to one succeed! That is a devastating statistic for a time that is hailed as one of opportunities and growth. Worryingly, suicide in India is slightly above world rate. Of the half a million suicidal death worldwide every year, 20% are Indians. In the last two decades alone, the suicide rate has increased from 7.9 to 10.3 per 100,000 with substantially high rates in four southern states.
Surveys have found a 64% correlation between domestic violence of women and suicidal tendencies. While domestic violence against women has been found to be a major factor for suicides in Bangaloe, financial and family issues too seem to be driving men to take this shocking step.
So, what is it about
meditation that is so effective in the treatment of suicidal ideation? Sri Sri
Ravi Shankar has said that, “meditation fulfills the natural tendency of human
life to look for a joy that does not diminish or turn into negative emotions.”
Meditation brings
about a major shift in mindset and approach to life. Much of emotional and
consequently physical distress stems from either striving too hard to gain
something we think we really want or clinging to things we don’t have. This
brings on enormous stress and pain. In the practice of meditation, there is a
huge reduction in stress levels that occur by diving deep into the deepest
states of relaxation, a rest that is deeper than the deepest rest. In this
state, there is a glorious mix of profound rest and high awareness. One lets go
without any conscious effort… As we reach this state, there is a shift in the
focus from the regrets, anger, and all things negative associated with the past
and the anxieties and planning of the future. There is then a movement to the
present moment. Meditation makes the present look so celebrated that it makes
possible dreaming and planning for the future.
Meditation helps the
mind to settle. Once it is settled, it brings back hope. It takes away the
confusion and the feeling of being lost which is so classically indicative of
suicidal ideation. Meditation will help release the judgment of pain and help
you just observe it.
Meditation helps us
to learn to experience non-judgmentally. If we observe our experience closely,
what is revealed is several aspects of our lives that we see and understand
clearly and other areas where we are essentially blindly. Meditation clears the
focus and thus diminishes self-harming cognitions. This helps to develop
self-confidence, self-worth and become non-judgmental This in turn will help
one with suicidal ideation to have better control over their be Academic
institutions must introduce essential skills like meditation into their
curriculum. This would help to be a huge deterrent to those who have suicidal
ideas and prepare the next generation of people to develop their inner strength
and discover the purpose and meaning on their lives.
(The writer is a
member of Art of Living and a social worker)
