I am a
symbol of the youth of the nation who has a dream for change and needs the help
of you all in turning that dream into reality. I am not here to sympathize,
empathize or criticize. I just want you all to listen to me, question
yourselves and think about what can be done.
For the past
year or so I have seen our nation undergo a lot of change. I have seen the
euphoric rallies against corruption that engulfed Delhi. The slogans of Women
empowerment, banning child labour, making India a safer place are still ringing
in my ears. Countless Facebook posts, Youtube videos and tweets on this Women’s
Day drenched me with unbound hysteria. My heart was swelling with pride that
the members of my generation were raising their voices.
A week up
the timeline, I was on my way back home from somewhere. There was some issue at
the traffic signal because of which the auto rickshaws were hurrying off
without taking passengers. I somehow managed to stop one of the autos and sat
behind. A girl stopped the auto and sat in front with the driver. Suddenly
there was a guy trying to sit beside her, squeezing her between him and the
driver. It was rather uncomfortable for her, so she choose to get down. Two
guys replaced her seat. I stopped the vehicle and lectured them on morality for
five odd minutes. Neither the auto driver nor the men blinked an eye. I went
home wondering – Is this the same youth that had chanted slogans with great fervour
and marched like a swarm of bees for one common goal – A corruption free India?
A developed India? A free India? A safe India?
We are not
here because our destiny was programmed to be so and to do so. We are a
generation at the crossroads of time, crossroads of change and crossroads of
being a part of a revolution. We are enthusiastic and exuberant, but we are
pretentious too. We want to do things, in fact too many things but we have no
clue how to do it. Whatever comes our way, we run headlong into it. We often
patronize others – Be yourself, follow your heart, aspire for your dreams.
Little do we realize that does the heart know what it wants? Do you know how to
be yourself in this hypocrite society? Even Google will fail to answer these
questions!
To quote
Arundhati Roy, “There’s really no such thing as the ‘voiceless’. There are only
the deliberately silenced or the preferable unheard”. So which category do We,
the youth belong to? Is it justified to say that the youth today has awakened
from their deep and long social hibernation? Are we not being fed with pompous
words just to portray a picture where we come out looking all vibrant and
socially aware? Do we really feel and believe what we say, and if we feel do we
express it eloquently?
Let me give
you answers to all the above questions. The truth is that in a nation where the
average life expectancy in 65 years, a 40 year old is tagged as a youth icon.
It is not that we are very happy with it, but nevertheless we accept it because
we lack the zeal to do anything about it. The youth today are leading a nomadic
life. A life which is a conflict between the existing social norms that are
receding and the new ideas that are emerging. Our myopic eyes fail to see
anything beyond the Facebook-Twitter world of the metros.
For 50
years, India has been a developing nation; it is high time we became a
developed nation. What is it that developed nations have and we don’t – Is it
money? Or resources? Or brains? Aren’t we patriotic enough? A nation with
endless variety, India has the best engineers, doctors, industrialist,
scientists and businessmen offering global expertise in their areas of
development. So, what are we waiting for?
On behalf
of the entire youth fraternity of India, I pledge;
To never
surrender my idealism for social approval - Yes, I am single and unmarried. And
NO. There is nothing wrong with me.
To change
the way the society perceives us and challenge its outdated mores - Just because I have colored my
hair and wear jeans doesn't mean I have no sense of culture or am morally
wrong.
To not
become so involved with my techno savvy world that I forget to dream - Read a book. Feel the emotion
around you. Dance in the rain.
To battle
the thought process of the way things are supposed to be - Don't force your children to take
up engineering or medical studies. Culinary science, arts, sports, drama,
fashion are as good a profession.
To
respect everyone’s individuality - Not every man is a criminal, sexist or rapist. Not every
woman is a sati savitri or damsel in distress. Never be prejudiced by the
opinions made by the society. You have your own brain, use it!
We are not
the reasons behind the ills of the society, rather we are messengers of change
who should be empowered and encouraged. We aren’t only the future of the
nation, but also its present. We need an environment where our voices are
heard and our actions are impactful. With the current scenario of our nations,
it is imperative for the youth to be involved in all the spheres of society –
and not just tall claims and unproductive debates – but also actions. We have
to joins hands in channelizing the energy and enthusiasm in the correct
direction to achieve the herculean task of nations building.